Question from a reader:

I read the following article on your website. I appreciate your perspectives. However, are you saying Christians should never play video games? I only ask since it was mentioned along with pornography. You also mentioned how eating dinner and watching movies can contribute to your physical, mental, and emotional health. Can’t enjoying video games contribute to that, too?

Answer from Stephanie Anderson, EPM staff:

No, Randy is not saying people should never use video games, any more than he would say that someone should never use social media or a cell phone, or watch television or a movie. Done in the right way (as long as the game itself isn’t glorifying what’s sinful), there could be room in your life for time spent playing video games or watching a movie or TV. “So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God” (1 Corinthians 10:31). Some questions to ask might be:

• Can I play this game to God’s glory?
• Does it help me honor and obey Philippians 4:8 (thinking about what is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent, and praiseworthy)?
• By playing this game, am I neglecting or avoiding other things that God has called me to do, including relationships, responsibilities, and time in His Word?

Digital entertainment options are so good at capturing us and tempting us to spend far too much time on them. Indeed, they are designed to draw us in and to keep us there. For example, I am not personally tempted by television or video games, but I struggle with spending more time on my phone and on social media apps than I should. I’ve had to utilize some tools on my phone, including timers and a “bedtime” (when my phone screen grays out) to encourage me to keep those activities in their proper place. A big motivator for me has been wanting to set a good example for my daughters as they grow up. Would I want them to use screens the same way I do? Sometimes, the answer has been “no” (ouch).

I think we greatly overestimate our ability to exercise self-control and not waste time on digital distractions (I know I do). So, if you want to enjoy games, and know you’re tempted to spend too much time on them, be honest about that and take appropriate action. For some people, that might mean getting rid of them completely. For others, it might mean putting up boundaries (setting limits and timers, asking for accountability, etc.).

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Here is another article you might like to read.

This was a fascinating podcast episode about video games, talking about what it might look like to bring video games under the lordship of Jesus Christ and use them in community.

I know Randy’s concern is that so many of us are pursuing what’s ultimately meaningless instead of what’s eternal and important. His heart is for more believers of all ages to study God’s Word and read good books that will help them grow in their faith and use their minds to God’s glory. As long as you are making that your priority, there could be room for some fun time spent on video games. Ask God for wisdom and guidance—He’s sure to give it, as James 1:5 says. Then be sure to follow His direction.

We wish you all the best, in God’s grace.

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