Decisions about dating, and considering whether someone is a person you could commit yourself to in marriage, are tough. You really need the help of an older, wiser, godly mentor who knows you well and can talk these issues through with you. 

We moeten ons niet schamen om te praten over waar God zich niet voor schaamde toen hij het creeërde. God eist echter dat we het onderwerp aanpakken in overeenstemming met zijn intenties en vereisten, niet die van de wereld.

ينبغي ألا نخجل من التحدث عمَّا لم يخجل الله أن يخلقه. ولكن، يريدنا الله أن نتعامل مع الموضوع بما يتماشى مع مقاصده ومطالبه، وليس مقاصد العالم أو مطالبه. 

The following guidelines can help you maintain a walk with God and guard your purity.

Water is a gift of God, without which we couldn’t survive. But floods and tidal waves are water out of control, and the effects are devastating. Likewise, God designed sex to exist within certain boundaries.  

Brandon Andersen with The Resurgence has written great advice to men on relationships. Here's a summary of his article with some of his quotes in italics, and then my own thoughts added in.

You must recognize your vulnerability and protect yourself from situations where you are tempted.